What they do in other cities…

5 11 2009

While we’re slowly trying to crawl out of the hole, things remain quite stressful (or mildly annoying like a British friend of ours would have put it) on the house hunt front. It would probably relieve the stress to have a good rant about estate agents and what they call immaculate condition (= infested with black mould) or habitable (=dump) condition.  I understand why they call it house hunt…

But I need something inspiring today and of course we still owe you the Paris report and pictures.  So I thought I’d do a short post about creative things that happen in Stockholm and Paris. Listen to some nice audio book ( I still have to find one as I finished the last one knitting the “nameless jumper” with wool from my old LYS in Germany) and work a bit on sorting the pictures.

Meanwhile, have a look: 3 star Michelin Chefs are now cooking for free in the Métro. And creative minds in Stockholm try out a brilliant idea to help everyone’s health.





Lifelong learning

1 11 2009
King Philip

Ferruccio Furlanetto as King Philip

Isn’t it funny how simple things can make you change your opinion? This time the avalanche of thoughts  started out by me reading reviews and blog posts about the recent premiere of Verdi’s Don Carlos at the ROH.

The first time I saw this opera as a teenager in 1986, it was an ORF television transmission from Salzburg – and I still love this production despite the slightly static acting or the traditional decor. I find the drama and the personal tragedies are quite clear.  The dama by Schiller which forms the base of this opera is historically incorrect and therefore, I think, we’re better off  just taking the characters as they come. – I will come to the point, just bear with me.

Obviously all characters in an opera have to be slightly exaggerated to make a point, but I’m used to seeing them as real people. As a soprano, the character closest to my heart would be Elisabetta. The young daughter of the French king Henry II, being promised to the Spanish heir of the throne – Carlos – but ending up marrying his father King Philip when the latter changes his mind, preferring to marry her instead of his son. So she obeys  – despite the fact that she and Carlos fell in love when they first met – out of duty to her country and to end the war between France and Spain.

In my teenage eyes this didn’t place Philip in a good light – even though I knew this was customary behaviour at this time. I was the same age that Elisabetta and I somehow couldn’t image marrying a man who was 18 years older…

Philips doesn’t improve for me the further the opera goes on:  after destroying the happiness of his son and -now- wife, the lonely man (as he calls himself) finally finds himself a loyal friend whom he later sacrifices (or rather kills) and nearly gets his own son executed. He deeply mistrusts his wife (well, should have thought about this problem before!) although he can’t find a proof for his suspicions, and ends up humiliating her whenever he feels provoked.(Ha, talk about dysfunctional families!) He is absolutely dependent upon the counsel of his confessor which -unfortunately in this case- happens to be the great inquisitor.

I’m presenting him in very one dimensional light, but think you get the point. Even the most beautiful music by Verdi composed for Philip makes it hard to find understanding for this man – surprisingly he gets quite a lot of beautiful music to sing :-) As it is highly unlikely I’ll ever perform  this role, I didn’t take too much care in evolving him over the years – until now. Also having had to listen to Philip’s most famous aria (Ella giammai m’amò – she has never loved me) at least 1 million times in auditions and competitions  makes one quite touchy. (In this aria Philip sits alone in his study at the crack of dawn meditating over what happens to him. It comes to him that Elisabetta never loved him (has no love for him). He remembers their first meeting when she contemplated sadly his white hair.Suddenly realising that the day has began and another sleepless night has gone he only sure that he’s going to sleep alone in his regal tomb under the black tomb.)

But in one blog (sorry I would link it, but I can’t find again) someone wrote about exactly this above mentioned aria and how he recently has suffered from insomnia and does now understand how Philip must feel. All your problems become bigger than they actually are. How negativity increases and you think you’re never going to get of it. And suddenly I started to understand Philip. No, that’s not correct I had compassion for him. After years of living with CFIDS I do understand the concept of insomnia quite well, but I never thought about applying this knowledge to this specific character in opera.  I also didn’t think how much CFIDS would actually teach me understanding people (and be it just fictional characters in opera) better and that there is a positive way that one can use illness to make life better.





Fallen into a hole…

9 10 2009

fallen into a hole

… this is as far as we managed to come out.





Radio silence

6 10 2009

Apologies for the prolonged radio silence! Will you believe it? We had just  started a wonderful holiday with 2 beautifully sunny days in Paris, and 1/8 piece of Quiche Lorraine later the entire holiday was under the cloud of a gall bladder episode (well, two actually, as we are not stingy and had one each…) cramps, severe headaches, throwing up gall, fevers, more headaches, …. culminating in the most bland diet I have had the privilege of partaking in in years… what a holiday!

More when we are back in London in a couple of days…





Happy Birthday, M!

20 09 2009
M in 1979

M in 1979

I believe we might have spent almost the entire day eating…. Perhaps eating is not an activity, but a state of being after all?! And it came about like this: on Thursday I had asked M what kind of a birthday cake she would like. After having tentatively decided on a cheesecake, I emailed different recipes and received the answer: “I can’t decide – they all look so yummi”. So I decided to make sampler (half recipe) versions of 3 cakes instead of just one (pictures to follow tomorrow, promise! Done!). Easy to spot the glutton, n’est-ce pas? And why stop there? I also found a recipe for the cutest mini-bagels on the Delicious Days blog, which just had to be tried out for our extended brunch. So, with some London sunshine, slowly opening white and pink roses, candles, Vicky Christina Barcelona playing on the stereo, freshly baked mini bagels, a raspberry cheesecake, a cherry sheet cake, and a decadent melt-in-your-mouth chocolate cake (of course all slightly amended and made into sugar-free versions), and lots of telephone calls from lovely family and friends…. breakfast lasted a few hours… or so :-)

Happy Birthday, M!





Vibrant Victoria

19 09 2009

It’s Open House weekend! Enjoy London from a different side! We had a great tour through Victoria/Pimlico.





Happy Friday!

11 09 2009
Julia Childs Kitchen at the Smithsonian

Julia Child's Kitchen at the Smithsonian

We have listened to the book, we heard Julia Child’s My Life in France (suffering under heavy ‘I-need-to-cook-now’ side effects) tonight we’re going to see the film. I can’t wait to see it.

Tomorrow we’re going to celebrate KL  big birthday – we also need to finish sewing G’s black dress (she’d like to wear it Tuesday – eek, better get going). Looking forward to a great weekend. Hope you have a good one too!





You can do this…

4 09 2009

©icanhascheezburger.com

This is probably how A felt in July when she had to give up half way into the Trailwalk because her feet wouldn’t go any further – her team went through and finished the 100km  in 31 hours and 10 minutes.

Earlier this week when I looked at the Open House London catalogue (third year must be a charm) one point in the programme made me think of her: The London Night Hike.

©maggiescentres.org

London Night Hike ©maggiescentres.org

It just called out for her… and sure enough, the call did reach her: in form of an advertisement poster at Canary Warf Tube station. She is going to do it and has found a great team to go with her. The walk is held in support of the Maggie Cancer Centres. 20 miles walking through London in the dark starting with a ride on the London Eye, getting exclusive access to the Royal Geographical Society and Horse Guards, looking at architectural highlights (Fulham Palace and Channel 4) finishing at the Savoy Place to see the sunrise and well-deserved bacon butties (or vegetarian equivalent).  Most probably it’s one of the coolest nights out ever  – ok, providing it won’t rain… but what’s a little rain for determined people, right?

If you want to support A’s team go over to her blog and read about her and the stories of the people from her team or maybe you want to walk it yourself? Anything is possible!





Inspirational

3 09 2009

©Hilary Lister

Hilary Lister ©hilarylister.com

I just had to post a link to this article as it completely made my week: the BBC published it under “Disabled sailor plans next trip“. Congratulations to Hilary Lister for being the first disabled woman to sail solo around Britain! Her achievement is truly inspirational – have a look at the BBC article and her website if you have  a moment.





I love bank holidays

1 09 2009

I love bank holidays! We rented a car and I got driven around-  to the beach, to Richmond Park (and around the Park – twice), to lovely little places (tea house) and bigger ones (B&Q – superstore)…. There was a bit to do around the house  – several gross-lines were crossed lately – so we snail-prooved the kitchen (my Mom had the latest idea how to completely seal it off, we can do this next weekend…), filled the cracks in the floor with wood filler and installed a new toilet seat (the old one broke). We also bought a couple (understatement of the year) of sample colours for my Mom. She wants to renovate the kitchen and since my Dad takes some time to be motivated (but then is literally unstoppable – “we’ll paint this ceiling in an hour” – famous last words) and I’m going home  later this month I thought it would be a good idea to have some colours as a starting point.

Despite spending too much time in this mega B&Q looking through colours, we had little decorating projects going on in the house. Since canvas printing was too expensive I found that the cheapest – slightly artsy – way of having a big picture on the wall, is to cut it into lots of smaller ones. It would have been easier if the photo shop would have printed them all the same size. Due to unknown reasons they each came out differently…

And for the first time in my life I own a bed side table. I never had one, because my bed was always close to a shelf (where one can store tons of stuff)… so Rast (don’t you love the names they have at IKEA?) found its way home with me and I can have all my knitting, books, iPod (against sleepless nights: I have a lot of audio books on there so I can pretend to sleep and at least have my eyes closed…) magazines and lots of other things close to my head.